We’re living in a tumultuous time for gender dynamics. There is an Internet Civil War going on, as happens when the winds of change start a-blowin’. GamerGaters are fighting Social Justice Warriors are fighting Sad Puppies are fighting Feminazis are fighting misogynists are fighting ableists are fighting Tumblr. Everyone seems to want something and no one seems to know what that is, but they’re willing to fight for it. Mostly through comments and pestering e-mails. And I’m just sitting here eating popcorn. I don’t know. I dabbled in the wars in the early years, not to hurt anyone, just from my own confusion. Now that my confusion is cleared I…